When asking someone out on a date, try showing a little more creativity than merely offering a cup of coffee. Thanks to the dating site Plenty of Fish, here’s a handy list of places men and women prefer to go on dates:

Mens’ Top Ten Date Picks

1. Taking a romantic walk
2. Restaurant
3. Park
4. Cook dinner at home
5. Coffee shop
6. Scenic car ride
7. Stay in and rent a movie
8. Bowling or Playing Pool
9. Live music
10. Comedy Club

Womens’ Top Ten Date Picks

1. Restaurant
2. Taking a romantic walk
3. Park
4. Coffee shop
5. Live music
6. Comedy Club
7. Zoo
8. Bowling or Playing Pool
9. Amusement Park
10. Movies

Check out all the overlap between the two lists! How cool is that? It makes planning your first date easy!

(Men: note that inviting a woman over to watch a movie for a first date will most likely make her uncomfortable. Most of us don’t want to go to a strange man’s home. Stick to public places until we get to know you better. We’ll let you know we want to be alone with you either by inviting you over to our places, or suggesting ourselves that we go to yours.)

Hey, men! What have you got against amusement parks? It’s a great way for us to grab onto you on the roller coasters!